"Your opinion of me is none of my business."

My neighbor has told me that a couple of times. It just WRANKLES in me!! I think the oppinion of others needs to be important to us to a degree. How else do we know how we come across to others?

"Sometimes it's good to not be so invested in someone else that you don't have to let them matter to you."

I guess that would depend on who the "someone" is. Would that go along with my by-line of "Consider the source... and then forget it"? Maybe it's my own insecurities, but in reading that, I felt like asking "Does that include ME, too?" (Retorical question. Don't answer that. I really don't want to know for absolute certain. )