Ouch. Iggy, your response to someone liking you only as a friend is a little frightening. I imagine that your intensity might scare women off. So, I'm concluding that if a woman that you're attracted to doesn't have reciprocal attraction toward you, then you hate her. It sounds like you might have had the capacity to be friends and now you're blowing it because you feel rejected. She might have merely felt noncommital to the person she was on the phone with. Maybe it was her mother who tends to pry, so she didn't want to say how she really felt. It could have been a number of things, including that she just wanted to be friends with you. And now you're turning around and calling her a beeotch. Nice.

I would be afraid to go on a date with you because you take rejection so hard. It would make it impossible for a woman to make a natural decision one way or another, because you seem to pile on so much pressure to not disappoint you. If everyone loved the first person they dated, then people would get married at 15. You don't leave women a graceful 'out' if for WHATEVER reason, they decide not to pursue things with you.

Even if you don't say these things to a woman in person, I'm sure it shows through. Resentment that runs so deep is very difficult to mask.