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I know t's do this, reflect back to us what we have said in a different sort of way, or more obviously. Mine seems to do it a lot, almost the whole time. I don't really like it as it seems so fake. I want him to put some of himself into the session. Does this happen a lot in your experience? The reflecting I mean? What should I say to him ? I did bring it up once and he said he does it to try to make sure he is understanding me. It just bothers me to always have that going on in the session.

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Interesting. I never knew the name of that "technique" before.

My T only does it when he really does need me to clarify something. I can talk really fast sometimes lol.
If he did it all the time, I'd be super annoyed and think he was super fake.