more thoughts..

they never did it to harm.. did it to help..

did harm.. but not meant to..

soooo confusing...

said to explain..

said 'not you we hate, is the behaviour'.. shows that all they wanted to do was stop the behaviour

soo..

I don't know

I guess they made a mistake. lots of mistakes..

always would say 'it's your fault' 'you've ruined it' 'don't you ruin our weekend/whatever' 'was justified' 'you've made everyone upset' 'I don't like to yell, but you make it necessary' 'yelling is the only way to get through to you' 'you're obnoxious' 'I'll give you something to cry about if you don't stop crying'

actions louder than words. if not want to yell, why yell?

I was not so bad?

I'm sorry.. I know it makes no sense at all..