(((((((((((((((((( Dustin )))))))))))))))))))

Well, since T said she's not mad, can you take that a face value and assume she's not? I have to admit when I ask T if he's mad and he says "no", it's often followed by "really?" and "promise?" by me, so I get how you are feeling

If you want to call less - is there something else you can do at that moment you have the impulse to call? Sometimes when I want to call my T, I'll deliberately find something else to do - a job in the house, a game with my kids, running an errand, calling a friend, taking a bath, reading a book - and then later, if I still feel like I need to call, I'll call. But sometimes the urge goes away when I can just put it off for a whlie.

You can always come post on PC when you feel like you need to talk to her! We're not her, but we can listen and give