((((((((((( mikky )))))))))))
One of the great things about listening to advice is this - you have the option of taking the advice and applying it or not
Getting people's ideas and listening to what has worked for them in the past is wonderful....it gives us an opportunity to open our minds to possibilities. Not everything that is given to us for advice will work for us...but at least it can get us to think.
Hoping you are feeling better soon and please know that there is not one person that is a waste of space....you matter!

sabby