We're in our thirties, so I don't think age is an issue. He's not too tired either, he's usually the one initiating. Because I've lost all interest in him because of it being over so fast. Trust me when I say there really are not any other big issues besides this. We're best friends, we get along, we like the same things, we enjoy spending time together etc.
Still I often daydream of what it would be like to be with a more typical man (sorry guys). You know, one that doesn't treat you the best and expects a lot from you, but doesn't give as much in return, but one that you have just crazy, wild, long lasting sex with! And a lot of the time no matter how good I may have it, that seems A LOT better to me!
And as far as making things "better" or "spice them up", I've done it and it actually makes him go even quicker!
I don't know? It's so frustrating and everyday I feel like I moving further and further away from him.