Mouse,

Yes, I agree:

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but It does seem strange how what we think we need or want to talk about just flys out the window and something else completely outside our awareness comes up in session

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This is exactly what I mean about getting to the feeling state and just letting it be. I think it's what is in our hearts instead of our heads--letting the intellect rest? And yes, I do think the mind works overtime to create defenses that are intended to protect it from the power of the heart!!

Peace