jinny I think many many men have a very hard time giving us women the kind of love and we need. I too am going thru the same thing. having been married 4 times I can tell you it has always been this way. I don't really think that kind really exist. sad to say that. I don't mean to sound negative in any way at all. just been my experiences. we either accept it as it is or leave it. right now I am chosing to accept it.