Thread: Sometimes....
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Old Aug 03, 2008, 08:47 PM
jinnyann
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Roz i just need to say that sometimes i feel the same. This is a support site first and foremost and sometimes it feels like people can jump on you when you feel most vulnerable..... or expect you to be well at the click of a finger ..... it takes time, lots of anger, hurt, ups and downs ..... dont let anyone push you..... you heal at your own pace ..... IMHO if people are only interested when you are happy and having a good day they are fairweather friends and are not worth your time ... you are entitled to be angry, hurt, down, happy, supportive etc .... yes we do have to take others' feelings into consideration when we're posting, in an ideal world noone would be offended. This however is not an ideal world .... far from it and if we spent hours thinking should i write this or that we'd never post in fear of hurting someone else .... people who post regularly on here know that nobody would intentionally hurt another on purpose ..... we all know that it's a big site and folk will be offended at times ..... we have to use our judgement to the best of our ability to know whether something spoken is hurtful on purpose or not..... we are all at different stages of healing, it's so difficult! I truly believe that there are few peeps here that would hurt someones feelings on purpose ...... then maybe I'm very naive?

love you Rozzy, Jin xoxoxoxoxo