Aaah, Jinny. Sounds like we are in the same elevator going nowhere. Like bebop said, we can choose to stay or go. I'm here physically at this very moment ...well I guess for the kids. I absolutely despise that I just said that, but its true.

No advice...I as well attend individual counseling. Thats about all there will be in this house. Marriage counseling is something he would NEVER consider.

Always thinking of you

.Dee