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Seems like more now than before.

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Yeah, well, the cat's out of the bag!



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Miss C and Soli this idea that we might not be able to integrate parts of ourselves until they are accepted by others who matter to us

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It just occurred to me, are we talking about validation here? Is that what we crave?