jinnyann said:

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ty. I'm in therapy on my own ... for abusive childhood .... hubby has a kind of councellor who comes to talk to him about living with the survivor of abuse ......

I love Tony, he loves me. I just need so much affection, he finds it hard to show his feelings .... very hard. I feel unwanted, therefore unattractive ... he watches porn, well he says he's stopped but i'm not sure if the damage is done ... my therapist says.....

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"I'm in therapy on my own ... ... my therapist says....."

???? can you explain please? i am confused if you are in therapy or not? hope you feel better soon..