i'm sorry you were hurt, mj. you have a right to your feelings.

sometimes it's good to know ASAP when you can't trust someone. even though you were hurt, now you don't have to waste your heart on developing a deeper relationship with the person who hurt you in chat. or, maybe this is a test to see if you two can overcome this and still be friends. trusting is very difficult, especially online whenever you can't look someone in the eyes.