if she is in an alzhiemers facility already then you know this is all signs/symptoms of that. alzhiemers is progressive. if she has a phone in her room there take it out. the nurses are the ones that should be monitoring whether she is taking her meds. make them be the responsible ones here. as far as the aunt goes I wouldn't worry so much about her. I know it is stressful for you and your hubby but this facility is the one being paid to take care of her hon. hold them accountable but again if she does have a phone take it out.