(((Jinnyann)))

You didn't do anything to deserve this. You are not to blame. You deserve to have a happy and loving life.

One thing that helps me sometimes is to remember that when other people tell me what to do to fix my life, they are usually talking about themselves, and not about me. I just happen to take it personally.

For example, my partner kept telling me *I* was oversensitive. I thought there was something wrong with me or something I needed to to differently. It turns out that my partner was the one who was oversensitive, and since he's been in T, he has come to realize that.

We may not be able to get people to realize they are talking about themselves, but it helps me not to internalize everything.

Many