That's the thing, Vett, is that you really don't know what that other person is thinking, (trying to mind-read is one of the CBT no-no's)...I mean, the woman might be severely constipated ya know...?

Hang in there, Vett, and do try not to overreact, (even though I probably would do the same thing and would expect to get this advise also ). Your friend, Peanut

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