I can remember what it was like to be a teen. ((bananasarecool))

I say when the topic comes up again, don't feed it. Don't get defensive, don't excessively deny it, and don't try to rationalize it. Just try and avoid making comments about it. If asked just say... "this story is not even worth me commenting any more on--believe what you want about me." Then walk away. If he does the same, the gossip will eventually get old. If he starts bragging about it, don't worry about that either. Most of the time the boys that age who brag about all their sex acts are usually the ones who REALLY aren't getting any.

As for losing your friend... the same thing was likely happening on the bedroom floor at some point during the night as well.

I think most adults, if they answer honestly, will admit that they've had a similar experience in their life.