I suspect this won't help you much (it doesn't help me much), but I think there are links in our brains back to former (bad) times, and even small setbacks in the present can send us back to those times.
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Now if thou would'st
When all have given him o'er
From death to life
Thou might'st him yet recover
-- Michael Drayton 1562 - 1631
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