Thanks Earthmama!! Wow all this support feels so good. I am grinning despite myself =)

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Your mom will try to make you FEEL like you are betraying her...but you are NOT betraying her. You are a grown up, and you are NOT responsible for your mom, her feelings, her housing situation, or anything else.

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And she's doing such a good job at it too!! She's not acting like a grownup at all. More like a big kid. Maybe that is her job... to be the extra uncomfortable push so that I know what I am doing is right?

thanks!
kiya