We tried so hard. Your grave has been bare for nearly a year since you left us. I went one morning and planted grass seed....it was ok for a while, but it left too. The flowers we leave are stolen each time. Ive given up, almost. My last bit of hope was in that maybe we could place a monument. Maybe she would allow a gesture so meaningful to be done without argument by his family who truly loved him. But, no. She always wins.

We submitted a proof to the attorney who tried to get her opinion. She shot it down. WOuldn't even look at it. Said she already had plans and was content with them.



I can't even put a headstone on my own father's grave.