Thread: What a mistake.
View Single Post
 
Old Aug 06, 2008, 02:25 PM
sabby's Avatar
sabby sabby is offline
Moderator
Community Support Team
 
Member Since: Feb 2005
Location: Southwest of Northeast
Posts: 33,346
(((((((((((((( bananasarecool ))))))))))))))))))))))

BTW...bananas are my fav fruit LOL

I'm going to go out on a limb here and be a mom (cuz that's what I am and I can't help myself)

Even though I'm a mom, I was also a teenager too. I do remember the stress and the hurtful things that happen in teenage years. While it is very normal to be curious about sex and petting etc....when one throws in alcohol/drugs into the mix, one's inhibitions are very easily disregarded and one can make not so good decisions. You got caught up in a typical thing that happens, and made a decision that you normally wouldn't have made if you had not been drinking.

Things like this happen often. Please don't beat yourself up over it, but learn from the experience and apply that knowledge so that you don't end up in this situation by your own doing again

You definitely do not have to expand on your situation with anyone who asks you about it. It's no one's business but your own. Besides, people will think what they want anyways. Remember that your actions of abstinence from here on out will help to quell the bad talk going on and soon this should become forgotten about.

I think, as teens, many folks have times that they are not proud of. But like I said, it's all a learning experience I hope that you will not put yourself down for this and find a place of understanding


sabby