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Old Aug 06, 2008, 08:29 PM
SpottedOwl SpottedOwl is offline
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wish I could tell him how I really feel--that I feel completely abandoned when he goes away; that for the first time in my life I feel like someone listens to me. That I wish he cared about me the way I care about him.

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That is exactly what came up for me when T went on vacation -- what if you don't come back? I didn't want to keep sharing with someone I was afraid would abandon me. In a nutshell -- issues of abandonment.

Maybe you can write this up in a note, and start your next session with this info? I think you have a pretty clear understanding about why the vacation worries you, now you just need to share this with T.

Who knows...maybe this break will lead to a BREAK-THROUGH!!!