Koalabb -- How did you feel after revealing your feelings to your T? Were you satisfied with her reaction? Did the two of you talk about this? Did you ask her about transference?

Therapy depends on honesty. But honesty doesn't have to be instant and immediate. It can be a gradual peeling away protective layers, like taking layers of skin off an onion.

It's generally not helpful to get feelings about one's T bottled up.

Only you can decide how much to reveal to your T and how quickly or slowly.