The ashtray is already gone it's in the dumpster. I'm sure that when I explain to her why I got rid of it she will understand. But I don't think it will be that big of a deal because she doesn't come over to often and when I talk to her on the phone she doesn't ask about the ashtray.

I talked to my mom about it and she thinks that when I explain to Michelle why I got rid of it that Michelle will be happy that I am getting healthy and not be upset that I got rid of the ashtray. I got rid of the lighter she got me because it broke and she wasn't upset so I don't think she will be upset at the ashtray.

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