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purplebutterfly said:
kinda stuck with this one right now for insurance purposes

- its just me its not him he is good - im just not a good person

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Purple this is what abused children end up thinking. The parent mistreats them and the child continues to idealize the parent and then blames themselves for the abuse. They cannot think that parent is wrong so they believe that they are bad.

You are not getting what you need from this therapist and it's not because you are bad.

If you are stuck with this therapist can you at least tell him what you need and that you are not getting it right now from him?

Are you sure that you have no other therapist options?