kathy, i know it was difficult to read. i know it was extremely triggering. i try to make sense of these things but it's really difficult. i think some ppl are very sick and do these things. i think some ppl are very immature and young and do these thinks. i also think that some ppl enjoy wreaking havoc sometimes...all of those aren't nice to deal with.

i'm sorry a mod didn't get to them before they were seen by some. we can't control what other ppls do sometimes, and that's sad. i'm proud of you for controlling what you can. you're trying to make sense of this and place it. that's a good thing.

the only sense that i can make is what i replied here. i hope you're able to move away from this quickly hon.

kd