Hey misse!

Welcome to PC! What you talk about is not so uncommon for women to go through I don't think. We all have our own likes/dislikes when it comes to the opposite sex. Certain physical qualities are complete turn ons and others are complete turn offs.

It sounds to me, and please tell me if I'm off base here, that the age difference and the fact that he has children seem to weigh alot on you aside from the fact that he is not what you consider to be physically appealing.

I think what it really comes down to is that there was no real spark between the two of you (on your part anyway). But, there is no harm in being honest with him to the point where you let him know that you enjoy spending time with him, but at this time you are not romantically interested. This gives him an out if he feels differently, before it gets too far and he has more invested than you do It can also give you time to learn more about him if he is so inclined to continue to date you. Many times from getting to know a person better, we find we are more attracted than we originally thought

Don't know if any of that makes sense or not....LOL. Wishing you well!


sabby