Hello Taffy,

I think under the circumstances you did the right thing... He was lying and cheating on so many different levels that it would have been impossible to stay and try to work something out...and 10 kids...please! He has 10 kids because he thinks sex solves everything! Move on, focus on getting your life together... Financially, you've been doing it all anyway... I can relate because I was in a similiar situation ten years ago in regards to husband not working and me handling everything... I divorced him after giving him plenty of chances to change...I was simply tired...

If you need someone to talk to, just message me...

TJ