you know what i do understand. i get that from my family and from my boyfriend well ex now of today. they don't understand or they wish not to understand. sometimes it isn't that easy to talk about how you feel when you have no one to listen or care. we know we are good people but like you said just finding that in your selfs. we should take care of us first then them but that is hard too. all we want is someone to listen and care.