Please ask for cognitive evaluation from dr- they take hours but should be done, some blanking out is short term retrograde and some will be permanent. I had head injury when I got run over by car. The brain is remarkable and can sometimes be trained to find new ways to reroute info and rewire- I've seen it happen with my autistic nephew.
No ones "putting up withe you" we are here to put you up and see you through.
TC