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bananasarecool said:
i just feel so disapointed in myself.
i'll try to avoid him as well and i'll just have to be strong
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Hi Bananasarecool....welcome to PC and yep they are cool and actually more than cool,,they are the perfect food,,you could live on them and water......Ah..sorry,,,went into trivia mode...LOL
Please don't feel too bad,,,mistakes are what allow us to feel compassion and build heart and character. Literally everything endures the rigors of existence...is changed by it,,,and moves forward..
You are learning about your world and how you fit it...and how to build and enforce boundaries which will over time...define you. All is well...
And the greatest strength you could display is to look your friend in the eye,,,explain that what occured was a mistake and that you would like your friendship to continue...Try not to start dealing with conflict by running...it becomes a lifelong mechanism that won't serve you well...
IMHO.
Lenny
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I have only one conclusion,,and that is things change too quickly for me to draw them....
Sobriety date...Halloween 1989.
I was plucked from hell...and treat this gift as if it is the only one...
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