Hi Mak, I never had a serious relationship until I was 28 (and that includes sex)! He is my wonderful husband now! I wouldn't let anyone get too close to me (until I worked through my issues). Please don't be too hard on yourself. For myself, looking back, I am glad that I didn't get involved with anyone when I wasn't pulled together yet. It wouldn't have been good! I have always believed that anything worth doing is worth doing right and this is exactly what I waited for on this. By waiting on a relationship I was able to be healthier and, therefore, able to have a healthy relationship. So get to work on getting healthier and don't be too hard on yourself?