Tomi, I don't want to be accused of stealing SpazKatt's thread, so I'll address your reply as briefly as possible.

I'm 43. Never had a girlfriend, a kiss, or even a date and it's not for lack of trying either. Not one woman has ever shown interest, not one.

That's the definition of ugly, plain and simple.

SpazKatt, on the other hand, is pretty.

That's not a matter of opinion or "eye of the beholder" stuff.

She is decades younger than me and has already had relationships. She has the proof that she can attract someone.

SpazKatt, I still can't believe you question your appearance. There's no possible reason why you should.