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I'm so, so, so sorry that your T is such a bad match. I am appalled that she compared the loss of your baby to the loss of her DOG. I don't even know what to say!
I agree with kimmydawn....there are other T's out there, and you absolutely deserve help from a caring, competent professional. I hope that you will give yourself a chance to see someone different. My 8 year old son has autism, and I know that having a kid with autism can be enough in itself to make us need a therapist - even without the past trauma, self-esteem issues, etc!