HI Las,
There is a vacation support thread we have been posting on by Soliaree, you should check out. You know, misery loves company. LOL
My T will be going soon too. Here are my ideas: journal, as much as possible. Write letters to T. Give yourself permission to miss him and draw pictures of him. Write poetry. Keep busy--as busy as possible. Hug a teddy bear! Keep posting so we can help you.
Take care