Hi Yinperson,

It took me a while to read your posts, as they are so full of useful information. I picked out a couple of things:

'hanging with people who tend to be rejecting' - Yes, who needs it. I wasted years on that useless occupation; not now though.

'attentional bias for rejection' - spot on, some call it 'filtering for negatives'. More wasted years; not now though (but the habit tends to return if we are not careful)

Thanks yinperson.

Cheers, Myzen.