quote] Sunny said:
If I ever have another serious relationship, I would like it to include that feeling of emotional security.

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Emotional security... By this do you mean not only feeling that you matter to someone at a particular moment in time, but that you are able to retain that feeling over time?

If so, that would be I'd like to have too. I tend to feel glimpses of deeper connections with people, but then I lose it and start questioning if it ever REALLY existed.

Do you think think this is part the attachment issue or disorder thing?