All I really hope for, Gary, is that you'd do some of the exercises, but you won't. I don't expect any certain words or actions out of you except to TRY. You don't want to do that. You won't seek counceling much less take medication. You won't accept that your neighbor could possibly like you as a friend.

You argued with the premise in "Beauty" not taking into account that it was written by a woman that has her PhD in psycology. I know her personally and she's NOT pretty, yet she's successful both career-wise and socially. But she's WRONG?? I don't think so! Besides, it worked for me and I'm not pretty! I must be wrong, too, then.

You as good as called us liars when we told you we didn't think you were ugly.

CBT is a successful way of treating many illnesses. You won't try it because your answers aren't what you THINK I want to hear.

In short, you will find any and every excuse to not work your way out of your misery and loneliness.

So again, I ask you; What do you want?