Sabby - that sounds really hard. I think I can relate a little bit. I went through a long distance divorce as well (2 different countries). It would be many months in between hearing ex-H's voice. We mainly communicated about the divorce via email, so when I heard his voice it was a real shock and would bring back memories.

Because of the two countries being involved, mailing stuff back and forth, that slowed my divorce down. I'm glad it is done now. It is hard to wait once you finally make the decision.

I don't know if it helps or not, but sending you good wishes.