I think I read somewhere that S&M fantasies are slightly more common in women who experienced sexual abuse. These are common thoughts/fantasies in non-abused people too and aren't necessarily abnormal. Also just thinking about being harmed or forced it doesn't mean that you will actually engage in these activities.
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