My hubby and my T share the same birthday. We decided to go for a quick drink (my daughter wanted to buy her dad a birthday drink) at the pb where both my kids work part time .....

My T was sat there outside with her partner and i didn't know what to do. She didn't see me so I walked past. Then after a lot of umming and aahing I went back to speak to her. She gave me a hug and introduced me to her partner. I said happy birthday, introduced my daughter and hubby then sat elsewhere.

I was quite shocked seeing her there and really didn't know what to do .... but i sent her a birthday e.mailand she replied and said it was fine that we'd seen each other 'outside' of therapy.

twas a bit nerve wracking, i was stammering a bit

Jin