YOu know theres a saying in AA "take what YOU want and leave the rest"...a lot of people in AA find it hard to see past their own experiences and theres alot of projection that goes on...if I was you I'd just say, hi yeah thanks for the offer if ever I'm in that situatjion I know now I have another option" and leave it at that...if you get somethign from just being in a meeting then thats enought...some make a career out of AA and expect the same from others...dont take on anybodys guilty trip...just do whatevers comfortable for you...