Hi someone122 and Welcome to PC!
I think that any relationship has it's ups and downs. Each relationship needs to be cultivated and cared for. Honesty and respect for one another is huge in helping the relationship continue and grow.
I think it's up to the both of you to sit down and discuss your feelings and thoughts about the issue that split you up. It sounds like maybe you haven't both worked through the problem openly and it leaves you wondering if your friend is using you for support yet keeping you at arms length as a friend??
I believe that open communication will help you decide where your relationship will go from here. I wish you well and hope you get some answers soon.

sabby