I have hated my T on so many occasions I don't think I could count them. Ha ha. Once you have established a relationship with a T and feel safe with that person I think the hate is a good indicator that your T is punching the right buttons as long as he does it kindly. It is hard to see that when you hate him but when you work through the difficulty and find that he was right it is reassuring and comforting knowing he was there for you trying to get you on the right road. {hmmm, I projected my feelings when I wrote all that...I guess I am pulling away from myself again. I knew this was one of those days...my rear end hurts, I think I pull something in my glutes...uh, not that anyone cares about my rump...ok really have nothing more to say I am just rambling again...but I want to ramble...it is raining here and I need to scrub my basement again. It stinks, my cat misses her litter box sometimes...I hate scrubbing down my basement...I hate basements in general...if I had my way every basement would be filled up with concrete...there is a town in washington named Concrete...anyway...)
Carrie

<font color=green>Not knowing when the dawn will come, I open every door.--Emily Dickenson