Heh - I think it's all vaild. Mouse - there's a part in me like that too - stamping feet, but also curled into a ball.

Jin - I am so glad you connect so well with your t! One of my T's was like this also, asking my advice and talking metaphysics with me when my own stuff was unapproachable. Now we are not T and client and can check in to say hi every now and again. When I was with her I thought I'd die to not see her. Now, we are on different planes... you know? We still care about each other, but her life and perceptions are taking her one way, while mine another.
Best to you!!! Kiya