Im ashamed to admit that I have done this to someone else recently. I met him online and I was suffering emotionally, I didnt tell him the whole truth because he was very interested in me. I wanted to kep the interest. While I needed him, he was there made me feel loved and valued and listened to, what a great guy.

but when i felt i had told him so much deep stuff about myself that he couldnt possibly want me, i stopped communicating. I know it hurt him, but i couldnt help it at the time.

We are back in contact again, but it is not so intense which is a good thing, that level of intensity cant go on day in an day out. well i dont think so.

Dont know if this will help, just give some space.