awww, thankyou so much. I'mso sorry that any of us have this forum, that we all felt scared and guilty, sad, hurt, unprotected enough to have to go through any of this .... welcome to PC tymedrifter ..... spudsy i have seen how supportive you have been already here .... i feel so lucky to have wonderful friends and people who really understand what it's like surviving this ordeal. We are not alone, we have each other to help us get through, such wonderful advice, caring and sincerity, thankyou all so much. Many hugs, Jinny xoxoxoxoxoxo