...this too shall pass. I know everything sucks right now, but it will get better. Look into services that can help with shut off notices and maybe your local child welfare office. also, can you press charges regarding the "stolen" $600? If your two aren't married then isn't it considered stealing?

As for your daughter, remind her of how much you love her. I used to tell my daughter that her dad loves her and thinks of her. But eventually I stopped lieing to her. Let him hold his own.

Good luck, it will get better