Oh JInny, I was half expecting my post to be removed LOL!...I was more messing around...but man, its like something out of a comic book some of these posts...the bad N's...I got me a superwoman suit with a big N on it....people write lonnnnnnnnnng posts about how bad their being treated, expect people to read the posts and their not the N's? I think nariciism is used and abused to be honest...some people use the label like asking how you want your coffee?...yeah I've been dx with NPD and half of those with mental illness could be also...hey its how you look at something at times..and look at "your" part in it as an adult...the 12steps fo alanon are good for that...